Pride with Prejudice

Virginity should not be regarded as a girl's character certificate according to me. What's your take? #Virginity  

                                    Here's My Take!

Well,this is a very sensitive topic as the tittle itself got so many thoughts running in my mind that i don't know from where to pick up.

 Rightly said;

 “Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.”
― John Woode

A person's character is that mirror which not only shows to the world who he is but also how he has been brought up.It is a combination of umpteenth things that distinguishes one from the other.

If you create a list to design a character certificate,i will place Virginity in the top orders.True, that there are multitude of things to define a person's character and Virginity should not be looked as the only one but it is significant one.And this is is not specific to XX ,rather it holds equal for both XX and XY chromosome.Don't take me wrong here,i have more to add.

Protecting ones dignity is as important as safeguarding your Life.No matter how much of Westernization and Globalization inflicts ,yet i will stand for the moral values and right culture which i should follow.

One Night stand is a cool word these days and is becoming more popular in the middle age group.Moreover, it is very well justified by the word ,Its Okay! ,Chalta hai & So what?

We Humans are the most superior creation of God,we have been blessed with the intellect of reasoning, rationalizing and understanding.If going around and sleeping with xyz person is really cool ,then i feel there is no difference between us and animals,they do the same.I feel ashamed when people say,he/she is Modern & Advanced.Dude,you are regressing centuries down to the most lowest intellect level.There is something called as Honesty and Loyalty,which is the pillar of Humanity.And,if you fail in that before you are put to test,then i can wonder how will you carry yourself ahead.

 Now,This might go little off the track,but i will never marry a man for whom Love and Lust is same,which in real holds a huge demarcation, according to me.We all have those powerful feelings which drives us towards the act,but what matters is how well you can control yourself and wait for the right time,rather than bouncing on every second person you fall for.May be it is not easy,but not that difficult though.What i mean is be loyal to one you are made for.This was just one aspect which goes for those who carry their heart in sleeves and are always in need to satisfy their Lust.

 The second aspect is one which is very crucial and always looked down by society unfortunately.I am not being biased,but if you talk about a Girl and say that she is characterless because she lost her virginity after being raped,it will indeed be very prejudiced .These days Girls are the prey of some peckish crooks even at the age of 3-4 yrs or at times less.Now,what this poor soul will remember at the age of 20, her only fault would be she was born as a girl.Yet,eyes will be raised on her presence and she will be discussed elsewhere.My thoughts also extend to the widow & divorce  cases(conditions applied) in which she(/he) is prejudged on one aspect before knowing the kind of Gem she(/he) is.

P.S: Although Both the aspects  need serious thought but somewhere we all are caught in this web of Pride with Prejudice.

This post is written for Indispire 16th edition:

Virginity should not be regarded as a girl's character certificate according to me. What's your take? #Virginity